Long-distance relationships have many challenges, though perhaps the biggest downside of being apart from your S.O. — aside from, obviously, not seeing each other — is not being able to enjoy sexual intimacy with each other’s company. But just because you cannot physically have sex together does not mean you have to reserve every ounce of pleasure or desire for those rare moments when you are back in the same bed. The solution? Work and be creative! Be willing to be creative, open, and playful to keep the sparks alive. Here are some tips to keep the intimacy going on and on, whether you’re 200 miles apart or 2,000.
Initiate a bit of tech foreplay and suggestive flirting with your partner. You can try sexting throughout the day, send nude photos, and text flirty messages. You can choose to encrypt your flirt messages instead of using a chat program that includes WhatsApp – or perhaps Apple Notes on this scale. These apps help you break the ice and take care of business in private (and away from the everyday discussions of everyday life). In this regard, you can do dirty talking. Use dirty talk to remember past sexual experiences with someone else and fantasize about possible sexual adventures together.
Have fun talking on the phone about sex toys that you want to try together, such as remotely programmed sex toys that allow you to take control of your spouse’s pleasure. Also, video programs like Skype, Google Hangouts, and FaceTime make you feel like you are with your partner, even if tens of thousands of kilometres separate you. You can also share the porn sites you both like. Talk about the advantages of watching porn together and give each other feedback on what you want best about your favorite scenes.
Planning Your Next Sexy Time Together
Create sexy tarot so that your partner knows you are thinking about him in the best way. In this way, you can talk about the next hot moment together. If you miss your partner, dive into the distance, and send flirty messages about the last time you saw each other. Dream of the time that follows, when you are together, describing what your partner should do with you. Bet on the present moment, and do the same!